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Do
you find yourself making excuses, lying or covering up for the
addict in your life?
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Do
you have reason not to trust the addict in your life?
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Is
it becoming difficult for you to believe his/her explanations?
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Do
you lie awake worrying about the addict in your life?
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Is
this person missing school often without your knowledge?
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Is
this person missing work and the bills piling up?
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Are
the savings mysteriously missing?
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Are
the unaswered questions causing hostility and undermining your
relationship or marriage?
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Are
you asking yourself. "What's Wrong?" and "Is
it my fault?"
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Are
your suspicions turning you into a detective and are you afraid
of what you might find out?
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Are
normal family disagreements becoming hostile and violent?
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Are
you canceling social functions with vague excuses?
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Are
you becoming increasingly reluctant to invite friends to your
home?
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Is
concern for your spouse, child or friend causing you headaches,
a knotty stomach and extreme anxiety?
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Is
your spouse, child or friend easily iritated by minute matters?
Does your whole life seem a nightmare?
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Are
you unable to discuss the situation with friends or relatives
because of the embarrassment?
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Are
your attempts at control frustrating?
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Do
you over compensate and try not to make waves?
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Do
you keep trying to make things better and nothing helps?
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Is
the lifestyle of this person changing? Do you ever think they
may be using drugs?